The concept of a mentor goes all the way back to ancient
Greece. Before going off to war, Homer's Odysseus asked his trusted
friend Mentor to prepare his own son Telemachus to become king.
If the tale were told today, would Odysseus have bypassed his buddy
and simply used email to nurture the heir apparent?
Well, maybe, but that doesn't mean the immediacy of a face-to-face
relationship between an established leader and an ambitious newcomer
is outmoded in today's workplace. By no means, according to Suzanne
Forsyth and Michele Fantt Harris, who spoke last week at the Society
for Human Resource Management's Workplace Diversity Conference.
Mentors are as important for the second information age as they
were in antiquity, Forsyth and Fantt Harris say, because they contribute
to the acculturation of new employees, nurture good talent and support
retention. Moreover, they say, a good mentor can help counteract
disadvantages associated with being outside the dominant group --
which, in the American workplace, is still white males.
For those reasons and more, say Forsyth and Fantt Harris, mentoring
is better not left to chance. They lay out a framework for a formal
mentorship program that involves benefits for both the mentor and
the protègè.
Analysis and infrastructure
Suzanne Forsyth has had a long career in human resource management
and consulting in the field of higher education and is now principal
in Suzanne Forsyth Associates in Washington, D.C. Also based in
Washington, Michele Fantt Harris, is vice president, human resource
manager for Marsh USA Inc., secretary/treasurer to the SHRM Board
of Directors and a leader in the formation of the National Association
of African-Americans in Human Resources.
These two seasoned HR executives recommend a steering committee
to design and launch a mentorship program and a coordinator to maintain
the program over the long haul. The coordinator role is likely to
be just a part of someone's job. Neither of the speakers has ever
heard of it becoming a full-time position.
Some key tasks for the steering committee are to examine the relationship
quality of the organization (permeable across functions versus boundary
driven), establish a reward system for both parties to the mentor
relationship, and make a connection between mentoring and performance
evaluation.
The steering committee also should establish an application process
(for both mentors and protègèes) and a problem solving mechanism
that kicks in if the mentor relationship goes awry. Although a mentor
might help most at the earliest stages of an employee's tenure,
most companies will want to protect their investment in the program
by setting a waiting period before allowing an individual to apply.
Eighteen months or one performance appraisal cycle would be a reasonable
timetable in many organizations.
Forsyth and Fantt Harris say a mentorship program also should include
training for both mentor and protègè, periodic evaluation,
and a written mentorship agreement that sets forth the terms of
the program and what each party should expect.
Mutual benefits...or not?
The potential benefits of a mentorship to a protègè are fairly
obvious: the individual can use the mentor as a sounding board,
to support career planning, and to help identify skill development
needs. The benefits to the mentor, while more subtle, may be just
as significant say Forsyth and Fantt Harris. The mentor, for example,
develops skills in coaching, relationship building, consulting and
teaching.
The relationship validates the mentor's skills and experiences
and the organization recognizes the mentor for his or her contribution.
But the relationship involves challenges and risks for both parties.
For the mentor, the relationship may demand too much time and energy
or may turn out to be a negative experience if the protègèe is a
poor match. The mentor may lose face if the company's expectations
for the mentorship are too high.
The protègèe may come up short if the mentor lacks enough time
for the relationship or turns out to be too controlling. What's
more, the employee's supervisor may undermine the mentor relationship.
One size does not fit all
The qualities of a good mentor go far beyond merely being a successful,
long-term employee. Forsyth and Fantt Harris suggest using a mentor
self-assessment to identify those more likely to succeed in the
role. One example is found in Mentoring for Success by Elizabeth
Weinstein. That instrument asks potential mentors to rate themselves
as coach, consultant, teacher and partner or colleague. The higher
the score, the higher the degree of potential skill as a mentor.
Potential protègèes should look within as well. A checklist from
The New Mentors and Protègèes, by Linda Phillips-Jones, asks potential
mentees to rate themselves in areas such as "I know the kind of
mentoring I want," and "I'd be willing to speak up (diplomatically)
if I disagreed with a mentor."
Forsyth and Fantt Harris also counsel protègèes to observe scrupulously
simple rules of etiquette such as listen all the time, behave in
a strictly professional manner and never bad mouth your mentor.
A mentor on the other hand, must never use superior status in the
company to manipulate or harass a protègèe.
Still, even after the most honest soul-searching and best behavior
on both parts, a mentor relationship may not work. The program coordinator
should maintain an open door policy and make it possible for either
party to back away from the relationship as gracefully as possible.
There's a lesson even in that.
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